Most of us live in search of that one true love. Some even go to seminars and pay thousands of dollars just to find out the tricks of the trade in finding that one soul mate and getting married to the person of their dreams.
The age of the Internet has brought us a new venue to find love. Online dating sites, singles chat and personals websites are very popular these days and are possible places to meet and date new people. But is it possible to find your one true love online?
According to some popular dating websites, it is indeed possible to find your so-called soul mate online. Testimonials prove that signing up to these online dating websites, free or not, can aid you in helping your perfect match, and live happily ever after.
Internet chat is also a proven way to meet your possible mate. Couples meet, hook up, then get married and have 3 kids after meeting online with SingleGuy128 and LonelyGirl80 as their nicknames – it happens. One click on that nickname and it was happily ever after.
You’d have to be open to the vast possibilities if you consider finding that one love online. Just like the “real world”, you can still get hurt, stare at the ceiling during sleepless nights over someone who hasn’t called for days (in this case sent an e-mail or instant message), or you can enjoy 6 months of solid, blissful, smile-filled days with a person you’d want to spend your life with and on the 182nd day of dating that gorgeous man, you find out that he’s gay.
On top of real world realities, the Internet is also known for anonymity. Anyone can wear a mask and never be discovered online. You can pretend to be a guy, talk like one online, and yet be a totally straight girl without even fantasies of girl-on-girl action.
The person you are talking to might say that she is 5 feet 10 inches tall with a 36-24-36 figure, a supermodel by day and your chat buddy at night, but really she’s a he and he grinds cement for a living.
On the contrary, if you find a person true enough to his words and you are genuine as well, and you find yourself enjoying the time talking to him and he enjoys your chats as well, chances are you’ll set up a meeting to see if your relationship can go outside of the four corners of your computer screen. It is in that meeting you’ll find out if you have met your one true love.
Be ready for the best and the worst if you want to try to find love on the Internet. The Internet is just another way, another venue for you to meet people.
You can be successful, but sometimes you fail as well. Love is taking chances; it’s a game, so think of the Internet as the playing field. Finding true love online is indeed possible… and as they say, if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be.